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Inspiration





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              f you're an ISO owner, merchant level salesperson     • Children, spouses and ex spouses will fight. It will
              or other payments professional who has a properly       likely continue for a long time and be expensive.
              signed and witnessed will tucked away, you might      • Sentimentality and practicality will clash. You may
        I think every smart person with assets to protect takes       want your daughter, for example, to have your
        care of this. Unfortunately, this is not the case.            mother's wedding ring, but other heirs might want
                                                                      to sell it for cash.
        According to an article in The Conversation written by law
        professors Reid Kress Weisbord and David Horton, 68         • You won't be there to clarify different recollections
        percent of American adults had no will in 2020, which is      of your wishes, and some heirs will accuse others
        up from 2016 when LexisNexis reported 55 percent of that      of lying.
        population had no will. Two surprising examples of peo-     • If you have pets, they may not be cared for.
        ple who died intestate are Abraham Lincoln, a lawyer in
        addition to being the sixteenth U.S. president, and, more   • You may not get the kind of funeral or memorial ser-
        recently, the brilliant musician Prince.                      vice you want.

        Common reasons why people delay estate planning are:    I once had a friend who died suddenly when in his late
                                                                forties. He had found the love of his life a few years prior.
          • A perception that they are too busy to address it right   They'd recently become engaged and moved in together.
            now                                                 But instead of walking down the aisle, his bride-to-be
          • A belief that their death is in the distant future, so   was booted out of the home they shared and not allowed
            there's no pressing need to get it done             to participate in planning his funeral arrangements. She
          • A belief that their spouse will inherit their property   even had to fight to reclaim her own clothes and jewel-
                                                                ry. He had never prepared a will. Extended family, from
            whether they have a will or not                     whom he had long been estranged, took control and liqui-
          • An inability to face the inevitability of their own mor-  dated everything he owned in record time.
            tality
                                                                Don't let this happen to you. Your heirs will already be
        If you're in this group, I urge you to start the process im-  grieving your loss. Don't put them through the extra pain
        mediately and set a goal for when you intend to have your   of having to wrangle with government agencies and in-
        will completed.                                         sensitive relatives grabbing for a chunk of your estate.
                                                                Making this passage as easy as you can for those you leave
        What can go wrong?                                      behind will be an enduring sign of your love for them.

        There are multiple downsides to not having a will. In a
        May 13, 2016, article published by Huffpost, Ann Brenoff
        listed several "nasty" things that can happen if you die
        without a will. Among them are:

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