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        You just need to calendar a visit for the future when the
        answer will be yes.                                         You must have a professional persona
                                                                           that is absolutely neutral.
        Step 2: Don't let business results define you
                                                                      No matter how political you are, or
        The second key area is related to how you respond when        how loyal you are to your favorite
        you hear a merchant say no, but it's more complex. It ad-
        dresses how you define yourself? If your self-image is         sports team, you can't allow your
        tied to success in business, and that success is building a   personal feelings to permeate your
        large residual income or signing a record-breaking num-         conversations with merchants.
        ber of merchants, you are allowing outside factors to de-
        fine you.
        I work hard not to allow my level of success in business to   Taking care of yourself is essential. We all have to adapt
        be how I define myself. Whenever I feel that I am allow-  to  today's  market.  The  changes  we  face  are  extremely
        ing work to impact how I define myself, I remember an    challenging. Take time to look inward at least weekly. It
        experience my son had when playing high school foot-     will help you retain your positivity in this time of uncer-
        ball. He was playing against a team that was much bigger   tainty.
        and faster than his. By the third quarter, my son's team
        was down by 40 points. After the last score, one of the   Jeff Fortney, a senior associate at The Strawhecker Group, is a long-time
        moms of the other team yelled out, "Don't worry; it's not   payments industry executive and mentor. He is focused on sharing his
        personal; it's business."
                                                                 industry knowledge and experience with others to help them grow their
        Her statement succinctly drew a clear line between the   business. He can be reached at 214-458-1379.
        person and their business (or sports) performance. Busi-                     Calendar
        ness success or business failure—neither defines who
        you are. No one is 100 percent successful. Don't forget the
        quote from Thomas Edison when asked how it felt to fail
        so many times before inventing the lightbulb. He said, "I
        didn't fail. I invented 1,000 ways not to build a lightbulb."

        If you find yourself allowing business to impinge on       https://www.stapayments.com/registration/
        your definition of yourself, take time for yourself away
        from work. Whether it's a day or a week, use that time to
        recharge and refresh. And reset your definition of you. I
        define myself first and foremost as a husband, father and
        grandfather. I do what I do to help me be the best me.                               April 6 -7, 2022
        And I refuse to allow my professional life to define me
        differently.                                                                     https://northeastacquirers.com

        Step 3: Maintain neutrality
        The third step is one word: consistency. As you sell, your
        personal persona can't define your professional persona.
        It helps to remember a simple statement about buyers:            April 12-14, 2022
        People buy from people like themselves.                      https://events.jspargo.com/ETA22/
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        Unless you know each merchant personally, you don't
        know whether a particular merchant is like you, or
        whether you're like them. You must have a professional
        persona that is absolutely neutral. No matter how politi-
        cal you are, or how loyal you are to your favorite sports
        team, you can't allow your personal feelings to permeate                          https://payments.nacha.org
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        your conversations with merchants.
        For example, if a conversation takes a political turn, avoid   If you have a show you
        implying that you agree or disagree with a merchant's       would like listed, please
        views. A statement like "I have heard that" doesn't imply     send information to
        you agree or disagree. It is open enough that it can be      events@greensheet.com
        understood as an agreement or concurrence. Yet it is also
        neutral.
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